Confidence is the new sexy
As women, we spend ages getting ready to go out ensuring every inch of us looks great. Whether we're heading to the clubs or just popping to the shops we always like to make sure we look good. However why is it we have this obsession with looking good?
For some when we step out the door in a new dress and high heels we feel super sexy as we feel super sexy, it makes us feel better knowing that if someone looks at us they will think we look perfect rather than thinking we look a state.
However, must we 'tart' ourselves up in make-up just to feel sexy or can we do it by just oozing self confidence. Many say a smile goes a long way. So if you step out in pyjamas and a hoodie with your girl friends to run to co-op for much needed chocolate, and you do it all with a massive smile on your face and don't care what anyone thinks does that make it look socially acceptable. Further from that, does it make you look sexy.
Well, for many the answer is yes, if a girl was to put her whole face of make-up on every day as soon as she gets up and keeps it on until she goes to bed, her face will end up spotty and dry. If she keeps her hair looking perfect all day, she won't be able to do much with it, she can't dance, have fun and move around a lot out of fear of it all coming loose.
Therefore, for many, we don't need gratification from others (sometimes it feels nice coming from others) but to feel sexy all we need to do is look in the mirror and say "I look beautiful and stunning, I am a confident woman".
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